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I get it, I really do, all these outlets are operating as a business… And how do they make money? Advertising! (more continues: /media/2024/07/click-bait-here-click-bait-there-everywhere-click-bait-2515961.html )
Yes, sorry, frankly I TOO find especially the initial Ads (they pile up, to be able to get them viewed in case someone doesn't read the whole article) here interrupting a nice/natural Read flow and are ANNOYING (but it keeps the Site FREE FOR VIEWING no Pay Wall to have to BUY your way past) and conversely their annoyance may indeed keep some from wanting to bother (so, Please, there is some GREAT CONTENT here on B4IN, keep reading the entire pieces despite the annoying Ads) and note if you engage an AD BLOCKER often I have found it/they can cause issues with seeing all the intended article content --- don't want you to miss any of mine, nor anyone else who posts here entire content as intended! The authors images (some or all), videos (some or all), their intended cross-reference links (vs Site produced Ad links, the easy Share-At/On buttons, and more, might also get "blocked" from viewing. And so now, to catch any NEW Readers, I too adding to annoyance having to repeat this over and over. My apologies. I endeavor to always give you DETAILED WRITINGS (and cross-reference related links with other rabbit-holes you can go down) hopefully you'll deem worthy of putting up with the annoying Ads to engage in/with.
I am NOT fond of the changes, but I have been with B4IN a long time now - certainly not looking to leave.
Lastly, note: I also wrote for TheLibertyBeacon (https://www.thelibertybeacon.com/?s=Joseph+M+Lenard), where I dropped pieces (normally weekly) on Saturdays for the last 3 years (and even RedState back when) and now joined and dropping pieces via SUBSTACK (https://tinyurl.com/JLDonSubstack).]

 

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When Attachment Theory Meets Faith…

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Understanding Attachment Theory: Insights from Rita Bliven…

 

TLDR     This blog post explores attachment theory as discussed by Rita Bliven, highlighting its significance in child development, its biblical connections, and personal experiences with attachment styles. It emphasizes the importance of secure attachments for emotional health and relationships.

Welcome, we delve into the fascinating topic of attachment theory with our guest, Rita Bliven. This discussion not only covers the fundamentals of attachment theory but also its implications in our lives and its connections to biblical narratives.

What is Attachment Theory?

Attachment theory posits that every child needs to form a lasting bond with at least one primary caregiver who is loving, consistent, and responsive. This bond serves as a blueprint for all future relationships and provides a foundation for exploring the world and developing a sense of self.

The Role of Caregivers

It is essential to note that the primary caregiver does not have to be a biological parent. As Rita explains, a nanny or any consistent and loving caregiver can fulfill this role. The key is the stability and responsiveness of the caregiver, which significantly influences the child’s emotional development.

Attachment Theory in the Bible

Rita draws a compelling connection between attachment theory and biblical narratives. In the Garden of Eden, Adam and Eve experienced perfect attachment with God and each other. Their relationship was untainted until the fall, which introduced a disconnect not only with God but also with one another. This initial separation illustrates how unhealthy attachments can lead individuals to hide from love, a theme that resonates throughout human history.

The Impact of Sin on Relationships

The act of sin, as described in the Bible, broke the perfect connection between humanity and God. Rita emphasizes that when attachment is unhealthy, individuals may feel that their love receiver is broken, leading to various coping mechanisms that hinder their ability to form healthy relationships.

Types of Attachment Styles

Rita outlines three primary attachment styles:

1. Avoidant Attachment: Individuals with this style often feel they must meet their own needs and struggle to trust others. They may appear independent but often avoid emotional connections.
2. Anxious Attachment: These individuals are desperate for connection and often feel that they cannot meet their own needs. They may come across as clingy or overly dependent on others for emotional support.
3. Disorganized Attachment: This style combines elements of both avoidant and anxious attachments, often resulting from chaotic or traumatic childhood experiences.

Personal Experiences with Attachment

Rita shares her personal journey with attachment, revealing that she survived an international parental kidnapping as a child. This traumatic experience led her to develop an avoidant attachment style. However, through healing and reconnection, she has transformed her attachment style and now helps others navigate their own attachment issues.

Healing Through Connection

Rita emphasizes the importance of reconnecting with one’s origins, whether through family or cultural heritage, as a crucial step in healing avoidant attachment. For those with anxious attachment, behavior modification and self-soothing techniques are essential for developing healthier relationships.

The Importance of Intentional Connection

In today’s fast-paced world, distractions abound, making it challenging to form meaningful connections. Rita points out that while we may not need constant interaction, intentional and focused time spent together is vital for nurturing relationships.

Quality Over Quantity

Rita suggests that an hour of genuine connection each day can be more beneficial than sporadic, lengthy interactions. This consistent engagement fosters deeper bonds and helps individuals feel valued and understood.

Conclusion

Understanding attachment theory provides valuable insights into our relationships and emotional well-being. By recognizing our attachment styles and working towards healthier connections, we can improve our relationships and overall mental health. Rita Bliven’s experiences and insights serve as a reminder of the profound impact that early attachments have on our lives and the potential for healing and growth.

For more information about Rita and her work, visit her website at canyonsandfireworks.com.

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